It was a revelatory moment for me when I realized I don't have to have a reason. Or rather, "Because I don't want to" is sufficient unto itself. It's just not taught as an option, most of the time, you know? If someone asks something of you, you're obligated, unless you have a GOOD REASON.
Very freeing moment, learning "Because I'm afraid it's impossible" was a good reason. *g*
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Date: 11/21/06 07:25 pm (UTC)Very freeing moment, learning "Because I'm afraid it's impossible" was a good reason. *g*